My Question

Can a girl be in a relationship and let her man be friend with his "mistress"

cos i dont think i cant... it is the matter of respect and dignity... if the guy insist of wanting to be friend with this other girl, it is like he doesnt even consider how the girlfriend feels at all.... first he cheated on her with this other girl... that is the first big pain... then blantanly he wanted to still be friend with this other girl.... i mean, how selfish can a guy be... that is my reasoning my excuse..... that is why i dont like Will being friend with either jacki or michi....to forgive someone is different from to forget someone... at the same time to forgive someone doesnt mean that everything is back to where is suppose to be... everything is changing and so is the situation... yea, i forgive you michi and jacki, but im sorry i cant let will be friend with the two of you because the situation is just not appropriate.... see, let say if that time will is really breaking up with me and has nothing to do with me... i have my own life and relationship and will has his own and doesnt bother me with his pity story and everything then i probably wouldnt mind it at all... but the fact that when will were having this other relationship with other girl... he still tie me with his emotion bagagge and hope..... that for me made them as the other whore that stole my bf..... i wish life can be more simple than this...