My Opinion

This is wat i think about "flirting"

Will said that flirting is a grey topic... it is not a black or white matter, or the other word, a topic with no real rule or definition to it... one person can say that this such of behaviour is flirting, but other can say no.. and none of them are right or wrong, it depends on the situation and what is happening...

in regards to the situation, it is okay if you flirt with someone that is single... epecially if they believe that flirting is a way to further a relationship... but not everyone wants a relationship... some people flirt for the sake of it... it's fun, it's a game and so on, many reasons can come up from different people... ok, back to situation... i think if i flirt with a guy that hs a gf, and that gf angry at me and said that im over the line, then i will back off... not because im scared or anything.. but it is because they are in a relationship... and im respecting their relationship... eventho i dont think that i flirted, but if she's insist then i will beave myself.. especally if he's my friend, then why do i want to put my friend in a bad position especially with his gf... i want for the best for my friends, and that is also one of the reason why i would back off...

but then it is just me, and not every girl understand this concepts... that's why there's so many stories on friend stealing their friend's bf and so on... not many people understand the concept of sisterhood.... and it is upsetting... but im glad that i can trust my female friends and i am grateful that i know that they can behave themself and wont do anything inappropriate and such

just an opinion and thought

xoxo,
Aby